From: Ritch and Margo Addison

Dear Elmer:

I always cherish talking with you about medicine: especially the doctor-patient relationship and the psychological aspects of medical practice with families and how that has changed over the years. Like so many in Berkeley, you were our kids' pediatrician.

Your mind is so impressively knowledgeable and curious. It was always wonderful to talk with you about almost everything. All on a background of caring and loving and understanding. I have great memories of our picnic at China Camp. What a beautiful day we spent there.

I always enjoyed getting together with you and the Elsons. So much history there. Henry and Evelyn and later Pat would talk about the great dinners you all would have.

We will be thinking of you and Pam. And being there in spirit during these crazy isolating times.

Much love,
Ritch (and Margo)

—-

We want you to know that we are thinking of all the kindness and love you have shared with us and our family over so many years. Your warm smile and welcoming hug whenever we would see you always made us feel special and cared about. We hope you are comfortable and know the impact you have made on so, so many of us.

Much love to you,

Margo and Ritch

—

The overwhelming feeling about being with you, Elmer, is one of feeling seen and cared about. Your warm hug upon meeting let me know you were glad to see me. I loved that you were our kids' doctor - you were so very reassuring during those monthly check-ups that first year. I smile when I think about how you said you no longer measured the infants because the mothers would be upset to think their child was shrinking. We still have our little booklets. We were excited when you used our kids and my parents gift giving story as an example of gender roles in your excellent book on pediatrics.
My parents loved spending time with you. They loved going to your house for dinners. They chose your Passovers over ours - better food and wine!!
You have enriched so many of us with your knowledge, kindness, and your joy and zest for life.
Sending much love to you and your family,
Margo (and Ritch)